Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Everyone is going through their own stuff.

Tonight, a friend reminded me that, no matter what, everyone is going through their own issues, and for that we must not judge them.
This was perfectly said, and I needed to hear it because lately, I have been judging others some what harshly. I haven't been living the way I know that will give me serenity and peace. I haven't been walking the walk.

I don't need to feel anothers pain, happiness, joy, sorrow, anger, or frustration to feel WHOLE. I can feel whole just by myself. That doesn't mean I don't empathize with others, it just means I have to step back and think about what is mine to feel and what isn't

MY feelings are just that: my feelings. I am sitting here having  a "Poor Little Old Me" party, wishing things were easier, better, and that I had my picture perfect life already. I want security. I want love. I want comfort. Yes, those things are enjoyable, and I want them!!! I know what I really need, though, and that is not going to come from anyone or anything else but me. 

I hear at a meeting tonight, "I am trying to gain emotional sobriety." This is my goal, as well.

Serenity and peace come from within.

http://www.tatguy.com/images/Serenityupclose.jpg

^^ I think that this is going to be my first tattoo, right on my ribcage.  :)